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Hatred through NEGATIVE votes

Postby Naya_Adley » 06 Dec 2017, 02:20

Why do we have the option to negative vote? What idea is the game trying to convey by allowing people to spread more hate in this world than there already is? There are so many good ladies/misters that mean no harm and are being cyberbullied and mistreated by other players in LP. You may ask how is that even possible? Well there has been incidents in which clubs negative vote on ladies of another club that challenged them. Also, some immature ladies decide to negative vote you just because you challenge them in fashion arena. Negative votes can come to even the most innocent of players, and trust me they won’t give a nice first impression about you. Why destroy someone’s day with negative vote and make the game less fun and friendly? Some youngsters may have very emotional reactions towards being treated unkindly through negative votes. Isn’t fashion all about expressing your own style and creativity? It surprises me that we are so judgmental about other people’s looks. We should learn to respect others and spread peace, not cause hatred when there is still a possibility to avoid it.

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Re: Hatred through NEGATIVE votes

Postby Smily Mimi » 15 Dec 2017, 11:49

Hey !
Negative votes, like positive votes are there to note ladies. Like for example, if you see a lady with a style which doesn't please you, you have the right to vote negatively, it's not hatred at all. People must understand that, we have different tastes and negative votes like I've said is not always hatred, but what we think about the style.
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Re: Hatred through NEGATIVE votes

Postby Naya_Adley » 28 Jan 2018, 09:08

Smily Mimi wrote:Hey !
Negative votes, like positive votes are there to note ladies. Like for example, if you see a lady with a style which doesn't please you, you have the right to vote negatively, it's not hatred at all. People must understand that, we have different tastes and negative votes like I've said is not always hatred, but what we think about the style.


I see your point, but voting against someone's style won't completely change the way they choose how to dress their ladies/misters just because of someone else's opinion. There is no need of showing dislikes, it just brings about a more negative vibe among players, which is not what this game should be about. Everyone is different and if we can't respect that then maybe we just not mature enough to play a kids' game. Not to mention, many negative vote LP club presidents and in most cases it does not have anything to do with their styles. In other words, clubs that lose a fight (sometimes trophies too) get revenge by negative voting the other club's president.

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Re: Hatred through NEGATIVE votes

Postby Smily Mimi » 03 Feb 2018, 16:59

@Naya'
Your question is "Why do we have the negative votes option?" If I'm not wrong, and I answered it. The game is there to expand our fashion tastes by having fun at the same time, and see what the world thinks about it in some cases. We're free to adapt any style, wear what we want and to share our opinions. If your style doesn't please, then you get negative votes and that's it. Others use negative votes in other ways and that's their choice but, the reason why we have the negative votes option has already been stated above. ^_^
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Re: Hatred through NEGATIVE votes

Postby Naya_Adley » 03 Feb 2018, 22:08

Yeah ok good point. I was just a little frustrated that some of my friends in the LP game have been getting a bunch of negative votes after club fights which doesn’t seem fair, but taking the negative vote option out wouldn’t be fair either as you said it helps others give their opinion on other people’s styles.

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Re: Hatred through NEGATIVE votes

Postby melje » 07 Mar 2018, 09:26

Have the same problem here.
first i have been challenged from the same lady before (michele yvonne)
this is since november 2017. like you see we are march 2018 and she still keep doing it.
it's a real mean lady.

but now or even before that she is starting to give me and my entire club negative vote.
I have no clue what that lady got against me but she is really mean.

Putting her club against us,.........just for fun i guess?
It makes the game less fun.
I feel a guilt against my club cause she does it to harass me.
I thought from leaving the club, i thought of changing my name. i thought about go of lp for a few months.
I report her, ask the site for help.......but this doesn't help a thing.

I mean she should be punished, i shouldn't be punished because she hates me?
I'm at the end of this all..........
I,.....use this as my last change, my last scream that anyone could help....
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Re: Hatred through NEGATIVE votes

Postby Naya_Adley » 08 Mar 2018, 08:13

melje wrote:Have the same problem here.
first i have been challenged from the same lady before (michele yvonne)
this is since november 2017. like you see we are march 2018 and she still keep doing it.
it's a real mean lady.

but now or even before that she is starting to give me and my entire club negative vote.
I have no clue what that lady got against me but she is really mean.

Putting her club against us,.........just for fun i guess?
It makes the game less fun.
I feel a guilt against my club cause she does it to harass me.
I thought from leaving the club, i thought of changing my name. i thought about go of lp for a few months.
I report her, ask the site for help.......but this doesn't help a thing.

I mean she should be punished, i shouldn't be punished because she hates me?
I'm at the end of this all..........
I,.....use this as my last change, my last scream that anyone could help....


Melje I completely agree. Some ladies don't use their voting rights for the true purpose, to show their opinion on a person's style, apartment, etc.. This is a common issue in the game LP that needs to be talked more about. Hopefully alterations can be made that restrict how much one should negative vote, without completely removing negative votes option (since a vast number of ladies are in favor of having the choice to negative vote).

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Re: Hatred through NEGATIVE votes

Postby melje » 14 Mar 2018, 22:35

yes, maybe this is a solution if it's possible,to look if it's always the same person.
I know it's a hard problem to solve.
Well meanwhile i started a new lady :)
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Re: Hatred through NEGATIVE votes

Postby Gaia » 19 Mar 2018, 05:30

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Re: Hatred through NEGATIVE votes

Postby jolori » 05 Apr 2018, 00:33

I have read through the comments on the subject, but I don't think that the response given is a helpful one. The negative votes need to go; it's simply a fact that there are some people who misuse it. They do use it to show hate and to bully. Yes, this game is called Lady Popular and so of course you can be unpopular too. But should this game be a place to be bullied? If you don't like someone's outfit - don't vote for them. Why should anyone get to tell you that your fashion sucks? If you don't like my style you don't have to look at it; don't click on my page. Honestly, I don't know if people use negative votes on me - cause I don't care - for myself. But there is a member of my club that is being targeted. I know, because I vote for her everyday and I have seen her points go from nearly 100 to 20 in one days time! How can there be that many people who dislike her outfit when at the time everyone was making outfits out of the same items - the flower dresses - we just recently had. And today when I went to her page she's gone from 60+ points down to nine, right after we defeated another club. But this is a helpful tool - no it is not. It is a feature that I hope will be removed soon. It's not needed; the solution is simple - if you don't like it, don't look at it and don't vote for it. Move on to someone else's page. Telling someone you don't like their style is telling that person they can't be themselves and I know someone will say that it is not, but it is. It just is.

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